I’m pregnant and i am looking for information on an abortion?
Please, no hate messages- i have enough to deal with. I live in the West Midlands, England, and need advice on how to get one. I am looking for one on the NHS however I do not want it going on my medical record so I do not wish to get my doctor involved.
I wondered how it is I come about to booking one. And where?
I;m 16… the dad isnt exactly… supportive to put it nicely.
look, if my mom finds out, thats it… I dont even want to go there. My boyfriend detests the idea. And yes i have seen the silent scream – i know exactly what happens but … Maybe in the future the spirit of this baby shall be carried forward. If it was 2 years on, it would be adoption.. till then.. i have no other option
*Ducks and covers*
You probably shouldn’t post this on the "pregnancy/parenting" board. There are way too many hormonal pregnant women on here. I don’t think there is a way you can not have it put on your medical record. When you do plan on having children later in life the doctors and staff will need to know about it so they can prohibit any complications that may come up due to having an abortion.
Edit: since you’re also under 18 I do belive you will need parental approval correct?
Edit: You have OTHER options. You just don’t wanna face up to those other options. I’m sure your mom would be more proud that you gave another family a chance (or even her) for that matter…rather than go behind her back and have an abortion. Your medical records aren’t private until your considered an adult. You aren’t an adult, my friend and if your mom suspect something she can still have your records pulled and find out what you did.
try planned parenthood, or alot of hospitals will do it but its more expensive
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http://www.adoption.org.uk/agencies/regional.html
That may be helpful.
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I don’t recommend you get one at all, and especially from someone who isn’t a doctor. If it’s something your ashamed of doing then put your baby up for adoption. I’m barely 18 and i’m having a baby. There’s a plethora of stress, but that doesn’t mean my baby will reep the consequences of MY ACTIONS! Your baby shouldn’t have to either.
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i dont have any info for you but i just wanted to send you some internet support. dont let anyone make you feel like you are doing something wrong. you are doing what is best for you. good luck with everything.
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I am not going to blast you or anything. I don’t believe in abortion, but I am going to give you some info.
Here are some side effects of abortion.
Blocked fallopian tubes
Weakened cervix
uterine scarring
damage to the woman’s reproductive system which may make her unable to conceive in the future.
Every child deserves a chance. If you don’t want the baby, give it up for adoption.
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*Ducks and covers*
You probably shouldn’t post this on the "pregnancy/parenting" board. There are way too many hormonal pregnant women on here. I don’t think there is a way you can not have it put on your medical record. When you do plan on having children later in life the doctors and staff will need to know about it so they can prohibit any complications that may come up due to having an abortion.
Edit: since you’re also under 18 I do belive you will need parental approval correct?
Edit: You have OTHER options. You just don’t wanna face up to those other options. I’m sure your mom would be more proud that you gave another family a chance (or even her) for that matter…rather than go behind her back and have an abortion. Your medical records aren’t private until your considered an adult. You aren’t an adult, my friend and if your mom suspect something she can still have your records pulled and find out what you did.
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36wks pregnant
I don’t live in England, so I don’t know where you can go. However, I do know that having an abortion needs to be on your medical record for future reference for other doctors and other procedures that you may need. If you ever do decide that you want to have a baby your doctor needs to know about past pregnancies, including this one.
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This isn’t me being hateful but you might not be informed. There is sufficient evidence that unborn babies DO feel abortions. Abortions suck the baby out piece by piece (arm, leg, eye ball). The babies heart rate increases dramatically during an abortion, this is how we know the unborn child feels it.
There are MANY people who will adopt you baby. Consider this and watch Juno.
Also, contact a crisis pregnancy center.
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this isn’t a good section for you to try and get this sort of advice. go to http://www.google.com and type in abortion.
Don’t let anyone talk you into a decision you don’t want to make, either way.
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my mates sister had an abortion. not summit shes proud of yh but sometimes you have to yh? not gunna judge you just 2 say (as my mate is sat here too) if you want her help she said to email.
Her sister had it done thru her doctor buut at a place in london but goin thru ur dr means it dnt cost. =(. if u email my m8 she said she mite try lookin for clinic.
good luck hope all goes well! im 21 weeks preg n in pain buuh my friend wil b ere =).
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do it juno style don’t kill the baby xx
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13 weeks
Your medical records are confidential ad will have to go on your records one way or the other for future reference, say if something happens to you in 6 months they would need to know.
In order to have a abortion in the UK I think you have to have it signed off by 2 doctors and also have counselling to make sure you are happy with your decision.
Try the nhs website it may tell you a bit more information. Also tel your mum or a friend you can trust so that you don’t have to go it alone, and don’t let all the people on here give you grief, I was never in the position you are so I wish you the best x
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I don’t live in England either, but I just want to tell you I understand. I’m 25, but my son’s father was not supportive and has never been involved from day 1. Like you, I first considered abortion because I didn’t think I could do it on my own. I know you are considerably younger than me, but my sister had my nephew at 17 and managed just fine. She is now 31 with a wonderful husband (not my nephew’s father) and a great job. She did it and so can you. Nothing is impossible. Just make sure before you go through with an abortion that you’ve truly weighed all the options and what the consequences could be for each one. Abortion may seem like the only answer, but just make sure it’s truly what is right for you. You don’t want to regret it for the rest of your life. Good luck hun.
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Personal experience
so sorry dear… you should try a different category..
i believe in women making their own choices, but please don’t let this happen again.. all medical procedures carry some risk, and multiple abortions can cause difficulty in conception later on.
as far as your medical record, OBGYN doctors use a numeric thing for ladies
1.how many times have you been pregnant
2.how many abortions (natural or induced)
3. how many live births
4. how many living children
take care and get someone to drive you- you’ll want the sedation.
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their are abortion pills but they are expensive and some clinics do free abortions and they don’t tell ur parent some cost around 100-250 dollars to get one done. im not sure where or how ur abortion clinics are cause ur in England and every bodies is different but if it is ur choice good luck. u should maybe tell ur mom even though she may get super pissed, but she is ur mom and they going to help u no matter wat. if u get this abortion or if u find a way . get birth control pills and it will prevent this from happening again. good luck 2 u hope this help
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