I feel like I am not good looking enough for my bf. Should I break up with him?

He tells me he is superficial and only dates girls who are good looking.

I have known him for over 2 years now, and from the start he wanted to date me. We have been going out for about a year now.

I feel so insecure because I know he likes girls who are good looking.

I feel like he should not be with me – and find someone else.

I feel like I am not what he wants.

Is there any way to save this relationship?

You said yourself that he said he is "superficial and only dates girls who are good looking" and he has been with you for a year now and has wanted to be with you for two years, so I would say stop feelings insecure, he thinks you are very attractive aparently :]

Also there does have to be attraction there for a relationship to last, BUT there are other things that should also be important, like how he treats you, or how he makes you feel. If he is making you feel unimportant or insecure, then maybe you should tell him how you feel. Just remember, most guys don’t think that they should have to tell you that you are beautiful everyday. They assume that since they are with you that you should already know how they feel or think about you. Annoying, I know. But that’s just how it is.

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6 Responses to “I feel like I am not good looking enough for my bf. Should I break up with him?”

Mr_Joe on November 27th, 2011 at 12:44 am

Seriously, if he thinks you’re good looking enough and your happy to be with a guy that puts looks before important matters, stay with him. If you want a real person who considers looks to be a bonus and wants a real and genuine person, then you should consider your options. Consider your priorities and don’t worry about if you think you are attractive enough for people because that is not important.
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Tony M on November 27th, 2011 at 1:28 am

Since he is still with you he must find you good looking. Send me a photo at tonypamelia@yahoo.com and I will tell you if you are good looking or perhaps smoking hot I think you are such.
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keka on November 27th, 2011 at 2:04 am

you should stop feeling insecure because he wouldn’t go out with a ugly girl. if hes going with you then you aren’t ugly to him. and if your feelings are fading for him then break up with him
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Swarley on November 27th, 2011 at 2:20 am

Babe, if he ‘only dates attractive girls,’ and has wanted to go out with you for a year before you started dating, why wouldn’t you be good enough for him? If you feel that insecure ask him, just say how you feel, even though it’s awkward and everything, but in the long run it’d be better. Also, it seems like you don’t see how pretty you are, but he does. It seems like you have low self-esteem. I don’t know if this would work for you, but you could go to a spa or something with some friends, try a new style of make-up, go window shopping with your friends, see a movie, just anything and you’ll generally feel better about yourself. If he really does date girls who are only pretty, there must be a reason he still likes you after two years! x
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Stephanie Wilson on November 27th, 2011 at 2:56 am

You said yourself that he said he is "superficial and only dates girls who are good looking" and he has been with you for a year now and has wanted to be with you for two years, so I would say stop feelings insecure, he thinks you are very attractive aparently :]

Also there does have to be attraction there for a relationship to last, BUT there are other things that should also be important, like how he treats you, or how he makes you feel. If he is making you feel unimportant or insecure, then maybe you should tell him how you feel. Just remember, most guys don’t think that they should have to tell you that you are beautiful everyday. They assume that since they are with you that you should already know how they feel or think about you. Annoying, I know. But that’s just how it is.
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Milan Deka on November 27th, 2011 at 3:13 am

I am agree with the other answers that you too butiful. That is why he is with you.
But i dont think that he realy loves yot.
If someone loves you truely than he will never says dis way infront of yor face. I knw that u realy heart with this matter. This is disgusting 4 you.
But i can feel that u love him.
So consult dis matter with him. Dont be aggrasiv at that time. Be cool.
Say him what you feel when he says like this. Make him understand ur feelings.
May be he is in confusion or in blind.
Coz love is nt only on beaty. Just make him understand. Dont broke up. Coz it will heart both of you.
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