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How many times a married couple supposed to have sex mad r happy?

How many times is a married couple supposed to have sex weather they r happy r mad with one another. Or should they not have sex mad at all?

say again my love??

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12 Responses to “How many times a married couple supposed to have sex mad r happy?”

  1. say again my love??
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  2. Have sex when they want
    Angry sex can be fun for people
    if you try to schedule it it’ll be so boring
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  3. Angry sex- go hard or go home
    Happy sex- slow and steady wins the race
    Take your pick
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  4. make up sex is amazing
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  5. Sex reliefs stress
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  6. Sex should happen as often as the people who wants it the most wants it. I can’t remember the last time I was angry that I had sex.
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  7. Franki the Sicilian Chic on November 22nd, 2011 at 12:23 pm

    There’s no SET RULE on how many times you should have sex.

    That being said, it sounds like you are from India or something of that sort, and I may be misunderstanding you. So I will try and answer as best as I can.

    If you’re mad at each other and don’t feel like having sex, you shouldn’t be forced to. Some may say sex is good when you’re mad, it brings a whole new level to sex, something out of the ordinary. It’s really up to you and your spouse, love.

    If you are happy doing so, go for it.

    If you’re mad at each other one might feel they are being used for sex and get a bad feeling afterwards, even though, he/she is your spouse, you still have feelings.

    Again, there’s no specific rule to how many times, as you asked, but I think a healthy marriage is 3-5 times a week depending how active you are. My husband and I fight all the time like kids, and we are in that range as well.

    I hope this helped, I’m lost on your actual question.

    -Cheers
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  8. It’s up to you how many times you want it and
    if you are mad that’s a good way to be happy!
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  9. Robert in Toronto on November 22nd, 2011 at 1:16 pm

    Give the woman some happy pills (medications) & shag her (releasing happy hormones). If you wait for her approval, hell will freeze over.
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  10. Its up to the couple how many times they have sex.
    Everybody is different
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  11. Personally when I’m mad I could never get turned on enough to have sex because I require emotional intimacy and feeling close to my partner in order to be turned on.

    But it’s different for everyone. Makeup sex after a fight can be a great way to resolve it and move on. But usually you’ve stopped being mad at that point.

    Some people really enjoy angry sex, but to me it seems unhealthy to associate sexual and intimate feelings with anger towards your partner. But like I said above, it wouldn’t work for me so I can’t speak to that.

    As to how often sex should occur, it’s usually dictated by the less libidinous person (NOT by the person who wants it the most like another commenter said- that’s absurd because basically if the other person doesn’t want it you can’t force them to do it without it being rape!). I think anywhere from once a week to 5 times a week is within a normal healthy range.

    But really it’s different for every couple because people have different libidos. What’s important is that you learn how to negotiate those times when one of you wants sex but the other person doesn’t. Coercing the person who doesn’t want sex into doing it will just result in resentment and frigidity over time, so you should never try to guilt your partner into doing it or use arguments like "someone online told me 3-5 times a week is normal". That will NEVER work and will make your sex life horrible!

    Figure out what’s acceptable to you both when you want sex and your partner doesn’t. Would you both be ok with a hand job? Maybe just some cuddling?

    Ultimately every one needs to remember no ONE is responsible for your libido except YOU. You’re lucky if someone else is horny at the same time as you and wants to get it on, otherwise you must take matters into your own hands. Literally! :) No one owes you sex, not even if you’re married, and you are never entitled to it. You have to EARN it and WORK for it each and every single time!! Yeah it’s hard but that’s life. :)
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  12. ideally it is beneficial for at least 2x a week to keep up your area down there. lack of use can make men go faster and for woman a little less responsive.
    you can have sex whenever you feel like it just keep in mind your partner needs too. example: my husband has a normal sex drive and i have a high one so while i want it 2x a day he would be happy with 3 times a week. :) we do it when we can. so every day or every other other. :)
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