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I dont really know if my husband is having an affair to another woman. I dont have any proofs but my instinct. I need help. Thanks.

I do believe in women’s intuition, if your radar has gone up there is usually a reason. Here are a few tips you may want to consider:

1) Cell Phone- if you can get your hands on his cell phone, check the text messages. If he is cheating, chances are that he has put a lock code on it. The way to get your hands on his cell would be to let the battery die on yours while the two of you are out and ask to borrow his. If he is reluctant to share it- BIG RED FLAG. If he does give it up, go to the ladies room and check out the text messages & recent calls. By the way, before you do this PRACTICE on an identical phone to his so that you are not fumbling around with it once you get it. If you do find something incriminating- DO NOT CALL HIM OUT ON IT YET. Play it cool.

2) Credit Card bills- Guys are not stupid and will not use their credit cards. If however you do have some way of getting your hands on his credit card charges, look for the usual suspects like hotels & flowers. What you really want to check though is his wallet for a CASH DEBIT CARD. These are easily obtainable at Walmart or CVS and allows your hubby to dump thousands of dollars of cash on it so he can use it for hotels, gifts, etc.. If you see one of these that you are not privy to…watch out.

3) GPS- If he has a GPS in his car, check to see the last addresses he has been Most guys are good about deleting their text messages, but not so diligent with the GPS in their car. It could have information about the address of her work or other meeting spots. If his GPS has a couple of local hotels on it…you know the deal.

4) Working Out- This is one of the best excuses for getting out of the house. Going to the gym, running errands, etc.. The way to check this one (short of following him of course) would be to call him on his cell and ask him "Honey…where are you right now?" You’ll need to do this in a casual way so that he does not pick up on your suspicion, but the point of the question is that most guys are terrible at keeping a "time & place" reconciliation off the top of their head. For example, say he claims to be heading to the gym. If he goes somewhere else and you ask that question 10-min after he’s been driving, it is not easy to determine EXACTLY where he is supposed to be and have it coincide with a trip to the gym. He will almost always dodge the question, or give an intersection that does not jive.

5) Timelines- This one is very tricky for cheaters to keep in their head, especially if they’ve been with out for a few hours. Most of the time a guy will have a good excuse planned out in case he needs to provide an accounting of where he has been the past few hours after he gets home. The trick here is to NOT ASK the question at that moment. Pretend you did not even notice his absence and have the usual chit-chat, dinner, etc.. The NEXT DAY however, casually bring it up and ask "where were you yesterday for 3-hours?" This is a major curve ball since chances are he may have forgotten the BS story he had planned to give and rehearsed in his car on the way home. By asking when he least expects it (especially when he thought he was off the hook), it will make it difficult to keep a credible timeline.

6) Comes home Late, leaves EARLY next day: Most hotels have a 3:00pm check-in, and a 12:00pm check-out the following day. Cheating couples like to maximize the use of the hotel room and will arrange for an early morning romp before the 12:00pm check-out. So, a good sign might be that he leaves the following morning earlier than usual. Also, if he comes home smelling squeaky clean like he just took a shower….he just took a shower.

7) Privacy Screens on Cell Phone & Computer: There are very inexpensive privacy screens that one can affix to their phones or laptops so that the content can only be viewed by looking at it directly, and impossible for anyone standing at an angle. If he bought these recently….watch out.

2nd Cheap Cell Phone: Most cheaters will buy a cheap 2nd cell phone to "firewall" the phone numbers from their real life and their fantasy cheating life. If he has a 2nd cell phone (locked of course) that is a pre-paid, it MAY be an indicator. It might also be that he uses one for work and the other for personal, so it’s more of a sign if he recently purchased it (i.e. 2 or 3 months).

9) Rattle his Cage: Nothing makes a cheater’s stomach turn to knots more than conversations about "OTHER" cheaters. That is, begin a conversation with "Honey, guess who I just found out was cheating? Go ahead….take a guess?" Pause for a little bit so you can gauge his reaction. If he is guilty of cheating, he might turn pale as he waits for your response, Don’t make it obvious that you were fishing for his answer, and continue the conversation with "So-and-so from across the street found out her husband was cheating….yadda yadda yadda."

10) New Clothes, New Body, New Attitude: Another tell-tale sign is that he starts tak

I really don’t approve of interracial marriage. I don’t want men of other races taking our women. White women are more beautiful and attractive than other women! It says so in the bible. We’re here to please God.

We treat our women better, we have strong family values, we don’t cheat, and we take care of our children better. We’re not deadbeat dads.

What do you think of interracial relationships? Should everyone stick to their own?

I already told you. Why do you bloody keep on asking this ugly, insulting and ridiculous question?

Your women? What a racist and sexist "question".

Does me giving you a Internet spit convey my feelings for you?

There is no such thing as interracial or race. It is a social construct.
I suggest you get updated in the scientific community.

You…"идиот"!

And in case you didn’t know, Gods don’t exist.

I think I really like William Golding’s writing style from reading Lord of the Flies, and I would like to know what novel I should read next from him. In your opinion which one would be the best for me to read?

He won the Booker Prize for Rites of Passage, but I enjoyed the Inheritors.

What song is in the new nike lebron james commerical where he and other people throw white stuff in the air? The song has like a guitar hook.

Cornershop – Candy Man

full song here
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I8pmAU9tzjE

We are trying to get a mortgage type loan, for the house we are building. We have been trying to get financed through BofA, but they have been taking months, and making us jump through hoops. We want to know if it is allowed to also begin seeking finance through another establishment at the same time, in case BofA falls through on us?

Heck, yes!!! Banks and mortgage companies hate it when youdo that, because they hate being forced to compete for business, but you have the right to do so. Make sure, however, that you aren’t signing anything with them that says that you won’t apply anywhere else. Banks spend money on credit checks, processing, etc., that they won’t get back if you close with someone else, so some of them ask you to sign a paper saying that you won’t. It’s pretty useless, though. You might end up paying for a couple of appraisals, but since you’re paying for the appraisal, you can release it to have it sent to different lenders.

for example if a person is convicted they face life in prison or the da seeks life in prison against a person who is convicted. does that mean that’s the possible sentence they might receive or is it the sentence they will receive?

Yes, it’s the possible sentence. A judge or jury will decide the actual sentence.
In the case of a plea bargain, the judge will generally accept the terms agreed upon by the parties, but can change the actual sentence also.

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 11 months now and I love him to death but he cheated on me about two months ago. So I broke up with him but then I took him back now everytime he talks to another girl I get mad and think he cheating again. He tells me that our relationship will never work if I can’t trust him again. I know he loves me and doesn’t want to hurt me again but how can I trust him?

It is wrong.
Remember you don’t own him, he still has his own life. You may be part of it but your not all of it.
If he spends all his time with you, he’ll get tired of you won’t he?
Just let him talk to other girls, you talk to other guys don’t you?
So why can’t he, give him some space. He’ll respect you for that

My doctor keeps asking if I have chosen a pediatrician yet. To be honest I don’t know where to start. I am almost 30 weeks so I need to get started. What should I ask when calling them, how do I choose which one to go with? My doctor has not been able to give me any advise on this.

Here is a sheet you can print out or at least grab the questions that you are most interested in getting answers to:

http://www.babycenter.com/0_pediatrician-family-doctor-interview-sheet_1452019.bc

In addition to those questions, we asked our Pediatrician if and when he plans to retire (he’s up in his years, and we didn’t want to have to search for a new Pediatrician again for at least a year or more). We also asked alot of Moms around town which Pediatrician they use and if they were happy with him/her and why.

We love our Pediatrician and his Physician’s Assistant and staff, they are very friendly and helpful. They do not over prescribe meds, they return calls (all though we haven’t had to make many in 9 mos). They’ve been in practice for over 25 years and some of the staff have remained all of those years as well (which indicated to us that he’s a great doctor to work for). They don’t speak in pure medical terms and speak just in common terms (which we greatly appreciate). I can’t say enough nice things about them, they’re FABULOUS!

Hope this helps!
Best Wishes & Congratulations!!

I am looking for the actual word father in the elvish script, not the pronunciation(i know how to say it i just dont know how to spell (write) it. I need the translation for a project, any assistance would be fantastic!

It’s "Ada" (ah-dah).

* Sorry, didn’t notice you wanted it in script. Unfortunately I cannot write it here, but you can write full texts if you download the "Tengwar" fonts, such as "Tengwar Cursive" at http://www.sci.fi/~alboin/tengwartutorial.htm

Install it at the "Fonts" folder in your Windows folder, and use MS Word to type with it. Enjoy.

I am wondering if anyone knows what is up with the older couple resting in the bathtubs at the beginning and end of the Cialis commercials. I understand them resting, watching a sunset, but why are they sitting in bathtubs rather then a beach chair or something? Why not in a gazebo or a hot tub as opposed to a regular tub? NE1 got a guess? I am open to any answer.

Don’t you get it?
They started taking bath together.
They did it – yup because of Cialis.

You see, older people have this problem getting erection and keeping it on. Then to have … hmmm… hmmm… you know…….. is even tougher.
(You will understand it, when you get old).

So, they continue where they left off with taking bath after….. hmmmm…hmmm…. you know……

Get it now.?

So the commercial goes on to say, it is because of Cialis. That’s all there is to it.

I can’t explain it further. Oh, I am blushing, and embarassed.